Thursday, June 5, 2014

{Montana Bride Feature} Wendy + Abby





We met while working together at a small advertising agency in Kansas City, MO. Both of us grew up in small mountain towns, so when we visited Bozeman in the fall of 2002, we knew we had to get here as soon as possible. We moved in the spring of 2003 and have been here ever since















We’ve been together for 12 years. It wasn’t so much of a proposal as much as a decision to get married last year when the Supreme Court ruled that same-sex marriages would be recognized federally regardless of state of residence. We were legally married in New York City in December 2013, and when our church here in Bozeman – St James Episcopal Church – approved the blessing of same-sex couples, we immediately planned a blessing and reception with our families and friends – the “real” wedding we’d dreamed of.



















It was the best day – EVER. The ceremony was beautiful, a true demonstration of love capped by Father Clark Sherman’s moving homily. It was amazing to walk down the aisle together as our families and friends looked on and so fun to walk out to their cheers and claps.

Our reception was perfect, too. We wanted to create a mix of both classic and contemporary. The Baxter Ballroom is a really traditional venue, and we created some whimsical charm with gerber daisies in bright colors, cupcakes of all flavors, and French macaroons.  Dinner was delicious, family and friends were everywhere, and we all danced the night away in celebration of our union. It was truly unforgettable – and we are so grateful to our wonderful vendors for making the whole event run smoothly and perfectly.

















































1Advice for future Montana Brides.

1)   Have a point person for the day of your wedding – someone you trust, but someone who does not need to be anywhere else except for making sure all the vendors have what they need and who can answer any questions for you (you will be unavailable!).
2)   Have someone take you for a quick ride after your ceremony but before your reception. It’s the first chance you’ll have to spend real time together after being married – and you’ll cherish the break in the festivities.
3)   Get a hotel room for your wedding night. Don’t stay at home, don’t stay anywhere where you have any responsibility to anyone other than each other. Have someone drive you there, and ask your wedding party to make sure there are refreshments waiting for you in the room. It’s the most special time, and you will love being able to rehash the day’s events over a glass of champagne.










Photographer: Jessie Moore
Rehearsal Dinner: Nova Cafe
Ceremony Venue: Saint James Episcopal Church
Reception Venue: Baxter Ballroom
Cakes & Desserts: Cakes by Jenn
Bar Service: Baxter Hotel
Photo Booth: Big Sky Photo Booth
Hair: Dezaray Paunovich
Makeup: Indulgence
Rings: Alara
Invitations: Design: Abby McMillen
Letterpress: Ice PondPress

Officiant: Rev. Dr. Clark M. Sherman


Wednesday, June 4, 2014

{Tips From the Pros} Hiring Your Photographer. Part 4 of a 5 Part Series

Hiring the right wedding team is a critical part of the wedding planning process. Personality, budget, skills, compatibility are just a few of the factors to consider, but whats the deciding factor in hiring the team to run such an important event?  We are excited to bring you this insightful, in-depth 5 part blog   on hiring your vendor.  Though its written with hiring your photographer (a VERY important vendor!) in mind, its applicable to hiring all of your vendors.  Thank you to our Guest Blogger, Paul Bellinger Photography for this great piece.  We will be posting this complete blog over the next weeks, so check back weekly.  Now for Part 4.   Read the Entire Blog…. Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3  


PRODUCTS YOU NEED

Problem: how to find a wedding photographer that offers the products you need.

Solution: Meet with photographers face to face and inspect the products they offer, looking for heirloom quality albums and large prints that are only available from professional photographers.

It’s great that photographers offer lots of unique products, but it can get a little overwhelming with so many options out there.  On top of all of the cool unique things a photographer may offer, there are a few key products that every bride should look for: albums, large prints and digital negatives.  These three items are absolutely essential for preserving the memory of one of the most important days in your family’s history.  These are the first family heirlooms of the new family you’re creating on your wedding day, so they should be heirloom quality products that your family will be proud of for generations.  Fortunately, professional photographers have exclusive access to the finest quality products that are not available to the general public.  Any photographer can provide digital negatives, but only professional photographers can offer heirloom quality products worthy of your special day.  Here’s what to look for in each product:

1.  Albums: Your wedding album is the single most important wedding product you’ll purchase.  It’s going to be telling the story of your wedding for generations.  It may be your only major family heirloom that will literally be preserved forever and it may be the last documented record of your family elders, including your parents.  So the wedding album is very important!  You want one that will be a work of art in and of itself, and that will last forever.  This is where hiring a professional photographer pays off, because pros have access to heirloom quality albums that are not available to consumers.  Meet with potential photographers and inspect their albums closely.  Ask them about the durability of their albums and listen for them to use words like “handmade,” “archival inks,” and “museum quality papers.”  Ask them if their albums are available to the general public.  If they are, it’s a sign the photographer is either not a professional, or are not interested in offering their clients the highest quality products available, both of which are a bad sign.

2.  Large Prints:  As important as your wedding album is, large prints are the wedding artwork that will brighten up your day every day.  Albums will be put on shelves and in boxes for preservation, digital files will be buried on your computer or on a disc in a drawer, but you will see your large prints every day.  And every time you walk past your artwork you’ll get a little tinge of the emotions you experienced at your wedding, and trust me, it will put a smile on your face!  And size matters!  I recommend you get your wedding artwork printed as large as possible, with 20”x30” being the minimum size to consider for your large artwork (personally I prefer 40”x60”).  But why not save money by making your own prints instead of buying them from a professional photographer?  The reason is because printing is itself an art form and each print requires the special attention of a trained professional with printing experience.  Each print should be finely tuned for the medium it is being printed on, such as photo paper, fine art paper, canvas, metal, acrylic, etc.  This is especially true for large prints that are going to be proudly displayed on your walls.  Professional photographers will make sure your prints look perfect.  Pros have probably made thousands of prints and tested a variety of print labs, so they can save you a lot of time and effort by getting your prints right the first time, while saving you the hassle of dealing with print labs yourself.  And again, pros have access to professional print labs that offer archival and museum quality products that are not available to the general public.

3.  Digital Negatives:  It’s a popular misconception that digital negatives are for making your own albums and prints, so at this point you may be asking yourself why you would even need digital negatives if your photographer is supplying albums and large prints.  The answer is that your digital negatives are for archiving and not printing.  It’s true that you can make your own prints from digital negatives, but most people never do.  Why not?  Because it’s a hassle!  And most people have very little experience making prints and albums.  Meanwhile, a professional wedding photographer has years of experience and can offer you products that you can’t get yourself.  So for most people, digital negatives are for archiving and backup, not printing.  Your kids may pull them out one day to make a print for your 50th wedding anniversary, or you may have a few prints made for the funeral of a loved one that attended your wedding.  You may need them someday, so be sure to back up your digital negatives in multiple locations (including online in the cloud) so that you and your family will have access to them no matter what may happen.  Hopefully your photographer will also keep a backup.  When meeting potential photographers ask how they will deliver the digital negatives.  Are they going to give you a disc that will get scratched up, or a cheap USB drive that will get corrupted?  Ask to see the products and judge for yourself.  Lastly, ask potential photographers what your printing rights will be, and to see a copy of the print release you will receive with the digital negatives.


Key tip:  Seek out a wedding photographer that offers albums and large prints, and save yourself the hassle of trying to make prints on your own so you can start enjoying your beautiful wedding artwork as soon as possible!  Anyone can provide digital negatives, but only pros can offer the finest quality products worthy of your first family heirloom.

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Tuesday, June 3, 2014

{Montana Bride Featured Wedding} Erin + Mark




I was born in Florida with big dreams of dancing in New York. Mark was a native New Yorker with dreams of playing Rock n Roll. We met at crossroads in our lives in New York 8 years ago. After four years, I decided to retire from dancing & pursue jewelry full-time. My family had moved to Montana, and I decided to go back to school for Metalsmithing & small business at MSU. Mark asked me to marry him on a rock by the Yellowstone River shortly after I moved here.  The following summer, he left New York and joined me in the Montana adventure.





Our wedding was at The Broken Hart Ranch, and it was naturally a Montana / New York theme.  The venue had a handmade wooden chapel held together with metal hearts, a burlap aisle runner lined with rose petals, and a hand painted vintage table as an altar.  Our mothers presented the rings, which I made with gold donated from our families, and the center diamond in my ring is from my mother’s engagement ring.  We wrote our own vows, both referencing Blue Oyster Cult’s “Don’t Fear the Reaper”, a song close to both of us.




I wore a Justin Alexander strapless ivory lace gown with gold & silver accents and a beaded belt which had a vintage feel. The groomsmen wore bolo ties made from vintage beer cans, brass and amazonite. The caps of the laces were bullet shells from a day Mark & I spent shooting. The Bridesmaids wore gold necklaces with different gemstone beads as well as a common amazonite bead to match the groomsmen.









Our flowers were displayed in handmade porcelain vases. There were also ceramic long horns decorating the bar which served our signature cocktails, huckleberry lemonade & watermelon gin fizz. I molded & cast over 100 Bronze ‘New York subway tokens’ as drink tokens. Sticking with the MT theme, we served smoked trout, elk sliders and bison meatballs as hors d’oeuvres, and Montana threw in her own special touch, a beautiful double rainbow. Following dinner (a whole roasted pig) and an assortment of amazing desserts built around a lemon thyme vanilla cake with ginger-honey butter cream frosting, DJ Missy O‘ Malley kept the dance floor crowded. She started the evening with classic love songs, followed by some rock favorites for the late night dance party.  Her last song “Don’t Fear the Reaper” was an unexpected surprise and brought our evening full circle






































Photography by Jennie Lynn Photography 
Venue: Hart Ranch Weddings
Desserts: Whipped
Bar: Zebra Cocktail Lounge
Flowers by: Tara Erickson
Pottery by: Terri Harper
Dress by: Justin Alexander/ Avant Bridal
DJ: Missy O'Malley
Bolos & Jewelry by: Erin Levy
Wedding Planner: Last Best Weddings